If you're in the sugar dating world, are you dating a sugar baby with ADHD? If the answer is yes, I guess that's what she told you, not an uncertain hypothesis. If she's already told you she has ADHD -- great! You're saving yourself too much trouble!
Adult ADHD is often overlooked in women, causing misdiagnosed patients to feel depressed in their daily lives. Her knowledge of ADHD means she may be getting some treatment (including medication and lifestyle changes) and learning how to deal with some of the complications of ADHD. However, if you just suspect you're dating a sugar baby with ADHD, the symptoms I'll list in a moment may be real for you. Whether she's diagnosed or not, the tips I've outlined will help her and you all.
What is adult ADHD? First of all, you need to understand what adult ADHD is, which is generally characterized by inattention, restlessness, hyperactivity, impulsion, etc. In particular, ADHD is different for female sugar babies. When we think about ADHD, we often picture a hyperactive boy, not a girl. But women with ADHD often go unnoticed because the symptoms don't match their imagination.
Women with ADHD usually have the following symptoms:
In addition, female sugar babies with ADHD tended to be less active and impulsive than men. They tend to be more introverted, and -- misdiagnosed -- they see their symptoms as personal defects. Many women with misdiagnosed ADHD also suffer from anxiety and depression. They are ashamed of their inability to organize and fulfil their potential.
Tip 1: make your date more adventurous When dating a sugar baby with ADHD, stimulate her senses in a more adventurous way so she can enjoy (safe and controlled) impulses. Here are some tips to get you started:
Tip 2: make your date more fulfilling Although dating with ADHD sugar baby often make you into a struggle, but you should know that not only is a sugar baby with ADHD defects, she may will be more creative, more intelligent, more sensitive, and this is why when they can't like others in the same time to reach the goal, they will become one of the reasons particularly frustrated.
Yes, people with ADHD tend to be more focused when they're doing something they care about. So when choosing a date, pay attention to their interests and plan what you will do based on that.
In short, find an environment that stimulates her and you so that you can both happily distract yourself. Here's an example of a very satisfying date with a sugar baby with ADHD:
Tip 3: be patient and kind When dating a sugar baby with ADHD, you can sometimes feel a little impatient or frustrated because they are always forgetful, which sometimes drives you crazy. But to stay in this sweet relationship, remember to be patient when dating them and don't react negatively to stress or frustration. She can be embarrassed when her attention deficit hyperactivity disorder interferes with your dating life and has beaten herself up for it. This time you need to be more tolerant and understanding, rather than blame her.
If she can't keep track of your dating plans or schedule, try developing strategies to keep things on track. Maybe you can send her a reminder text or ask her to set it up on her phone to make sure she's ready for the plan. If she often can't find her keys, suggest she find a key chain and hang them on it.
Finally, clumsiness is a symptom of ADHD. If she drops something on your date, don't complain or make fun of her. Let her know that this happens all the time, and try to make her smile and say, "hey, the glass is going to fall down anyway." Or: "I've had bad feelings since we've been here. It's all right. I'm fine. I didn't hurt you."
Tip 4: treat the topic with kindness and compassion If you've been dating a sugar baby with ADHD for a while and you suspect she has misdiagnosed ADHD, you can talk to them about it from a sympathetic perspective. Instead of simply asking her, "do you have ADHD?" ) or bring up the subject in an incredible way. If your sugar baby has developed these symptoms and seems embarrassed or frustrated by them, you can use this example to talk about the topic:
"I've noticed that you're very strict with yourself, but I've also noticed that you seem to forget things all the time and have a hard time putting things in order. I hate to see you upset. I wish I could support you when I can. I've read about ADHD in adults, and I think that's probably why you sometimes have trouble. This is a very common thing, nothing to be embarrassed. There's a lot of great advice and treatments online, and I think if you actively address it, you'll feel a lot better. If you like, we can look up some information together."
Through such a conversation, she will have to decide whether she wants to solve the problem and ask for help. But the point is that she knows that you're supportive, not judgmental, and that can go a long way in your relationship.
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